I witnessed a bgirl get disrespected at a big bboy event. All she wanted to do was cipher and some bboy "friend" was making inappropriate remarks to her. She endedup crying a lot that day. It really pissed me off and I wanted to let her take care of it her self because she wanted to, but I heard him trying to sugar coat his apology by saying "I didn't mean any harm, I was just messin around, jokin."
BOYS: apologize, say sorry, and mean it, and don't try to say you were just messing around that's how feelings get even more hurt. Nothing in sincere when you're saying you meant no harm . Realize you WRONGEd, apologize and NEVER DO IT AGAIN. Or I will seriously smoke you in front of everyone.
